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Filed Under: ADVICE AND INFO, FOOD AND COOKING, SIMPLE LIVING, What We Eat

WEEKLY FOOD PREP: SUMMERTIME

weekly-food-prep-for-the-summer-months Once summer hits I find we are home way less, which means there is barely enough time to cook a meal – if it’s not too hot to cook. The house is usually in a constant state of mess, more than usual that is. And I always always feel like I’m behind on life as soon as we step in the door (and probably the whole day, to be honest). I try my best to plan ahead, but have taken things to a more controlled type A personality type level, this year. This is how I prep for the summer weeks (It’s a bit different than in the fall and winter), to make sure we all stay eating well and there are zero surprise “let’s go grab some take out because I forgot to thaw/prep for dinner” moments.

meal plan MEAL PLAN (ALWAYS MEAL PLAN).

I cannot grocery shop with out a plan. Well I can, but I always end up over spending and then having to visit the store a few extra times during the week to grab things I forgot – a waste of time and money. So I meal plan (usually Sunday nights, because I like to shop Monday or Tuesday mornings when it’s quiet and the stores are just getting restocked from the weekend). I usually sit (probably while the kids play and make another mess) with my pad of paper and Pinterest food boards and make a list for the week.

wash fruit and veggies WASH ALL THE FRUITS AND VEGGIES.

Fill the sink with cool water, mix in 1 cup of vinegar and then toss in your fruit and veggies as the groceries get unpacked. Letting them soak for 10 minutes, as soon we come home from the store makes it easier for the kids to just grab a snack during the week and let’s me skip the whole washing step when cooking prep time comes.

chop and peel veggies CHOP AND PEEL.

There are some veggies that take a bit of extra time to chop, but can keep well for a while once chopped. In the summer I like to pre-chop and peel vegetables for salads and snacks (and stuff), it takes out half the work for later and it makes throwing a salad together or grabbing cut up red peppers instead of crackers much easier. I like to chop red onion, red peppers, carrots, de-stem and break apart kale.

wash cut peel and chop veggies COOK AHEAD.

Those things that can easily thrown into salads or added to a meal, but can take a bit of time just on their own getting them all ready to be eaten. I like to prep and cook a few beets, a few hard-boiled eggs, chick peas (or whatever beans and legumes I’m into using that week) and quinoa. If I ever make too much, quinoa (never happens) or chickpeas – I freeze them, which then makes the following weeks prep super-duper easy. *I recently started cooking my dried beans and legumes in the slow cooker, much better and more fool-proof then soaking all night and then cooking.

prepare hearty salads ahead of time MAKE HEARTY SALADS.

Sometimes it’s a pain to stay indoors and cook for long periods in time in the summer, but maybe that’s just me and my tiny kitchen. At the beginning of the week, I try to make a couple (depending on how much room my fridge has) hearty salads to keep covered in the fridge. Often I will leave the dressing (and less hearty vegetables, like spinach) on the side and we can add that to each portion later. This makes lunch time a no brainer (especially packing lunch for Chris). Also it’s a good fall back for a dinner side when I’m feeling lazy (let’s say about 5 days out of the week). This quinoa salad (a twist on this recipe), broccoli salad, and chickpea salad  from the oh she glows cookbook (for quick sandwiches) are some of our favorites.

mix cereal and salad dressings MIX AND PUT ASIDE.

Mix breakfast, salad dressings and marinades. For all the same reasons, if you prep and pre-make it, it will make eating and eating healthier so much easier. For breakfast I make a version of overnight oats but just let it sit for about 20 mins in the am and its good to be eaten – usually I pre-mix because my concoction of nuts, seeds, and grains is a bit confusing for my husband. Same goes for salad dressing, if I know I’m going to need it that week making at least one of them ahead of time will take all the work out of making an extraordinary salad later.

PACK AND PREPARE.

Often if we have our day planned out, I will pack snacks, a hearty salad and some sandwiches in my backpack when we head out for the day. This way we don’t have to rush back for lunch and we won’t be so hungry that we grab some pizza or something else while we are out. Basically this plan let’s the kids play outside allll day long, no interruptions.

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Do you have any weekly meal prep tricks? How is summertime for you, do you find it harder to keep up? Find some of our favorite go-to meals here.

 

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Filed Under: ADVICE AND INFO, Daily

EXTRA WINE?

extra-wine Wine not whine, I have a lot of extra whine around here too – once I figure out what to do with that, I’ll let you know. That extra little bit of wine that’s left at the end of the bottle, it happens (sometimes). Maybe there isn’t enough for a glass or you forgot about it for a few days and it’s gone a little too vinegary to enjoy? When/if I ever have that little bit of leftover wine, I like to pour it into an ice-cube tray and freeze it. Then pack the cubes in a ziploc freezer bag so I have wine ready for whenever a recipe calls for it. This is also great, because then I don’t have to use a new bottle for cooking – even though it’s always a great reason to buy or open a bottle.

Some more MADE EASIER tips: iron out small wrinkles on a shirt while you wear it and always have fresh ginger on hand.

 

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Filed Under: ADVICE AND INFO, Daily, SIMPLE LIVING

Calm Your Anxiety: Tried and True Methods To Prevent And Deal With An Attack

calm-your-anxiety Anxiety and panic attacks are like my silent lifelong nemesis. I have cursed and struggled with them for the majority of my life. In fact, the majority of the population either suffers quietly from anxiety or has had a few brushes with it at some point in their lives. I have a good 20+ years of panic attacks under my belt (I should get a girl guide badge for that, no?) I have figured out a lot of ways to help when attacks or anxious feelings come my way. Nothing is fool-proof, but there are a lot of things you can do to prevent, ease or use to teach your self to think differently. This is a doozy of a post, tons of information that I have personally found that really helps me – if it’s not your cup of tea, no worries (no pun intended) otherwise read on. READ MORE

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Filed Under: ADVICE AND INFO, Daily, Dear Diary, SIMPLE LIVING

MORE THAN JUST A DATE

more than just a date more than just a date more than just a date more than just a date more than just a date more than just a date niagara falls canada Tribe Rocks Bag This weekend alone with my husband was a fantastic one. Even thought it was really hard for me to be away from my kids, driving away after we dropped them off consisted of me trying not to cry like a baby. The first night I didn’t sleep a wink, not because I was worried I knew they were in great hands – but simply because I was without them. I haven’t had time alone with Chris for more then a couple hours in over 5 years, it always felt fine and like we didn’t need to get away – until we did. Not that I need time away from my kids, I don’t. But time alone with my husband is also very important and something I didn’t really realize I was missing in my life.

After this weekend, I promised myself that going forward I was going to make all our time spent together, much more intentional (among other things, more on this later). Without even realizing it, our regular nights together or dates were often spent floating a little on habit. Usually half our date/night is spent catching our breath and catching up on life, then once we are finally present with each other it’s also time for bed. Having a weekend away allowed us to sorta, have a night to catch our breath and then still have time to be with each other and present in those moments. It was more then a fantastic weekend because we got away, it was truly fantastic because I got to truly be with the man I love.

We talked and I plan on talking about it even more – probably more then I need too, I have a knack for that. After the past weekend I plan on making all our dates more than just a date and to stay overall more intentional with all the time I spend with him. Have real date nights at home, not just a night without the kids – because that’s often what they are like.

more than just a date A really simple plan (I really like simple things):

  • Feed the kids and then order in food just for us
  • Play a game of cards instead of watch tv.
  • Save a movie for a date night, rather then watch it the first night we have it in hand.
  • Just sit and chat with a drink no movie or tv.
  • Go to bed early and just talk.
  • Keep the phone and computers away (this is a huge one), maybe after a certain time because often we have some work to catch up on (or mostly me).
  • Ask someone to babysit, and go out of the house more often (this will be hard for me, I’m extremely bad at asking for help).

I love love, that we are a family that spends the majority of or time on dates and adventures together. And I definitely do not want those to stop, I just really want to add in some frequent real dates with the person that I created this family with – and I think that’s just as important as spending time as a family.

PS. my bag, it came in the mail just a few hours before we left – and I had the whole weekend to say over and over again “I love this bag”. So I will for sure talk about it again, but in case you are wondering it’s from Tribe and it’s awesome.

March 25, 2014     |     written by Brandy     |     72246 Commentshttp%3A%2F%2Fheartandhabit.com%2F2014%2F03%2Fmore-than-a-date%2FMORE+THAN+JUST+A+DATE2014-03-25+18%3A21%3A35Brandyhttp%3A%2F%2Fheartandhabit.com%2F%3Fp%3D7224

Filed Under: ADVICE AND INFO, Daily, SIMPLE LIVING

MADE A LITTLE EASIER

I pride myself in my love for the simple and am constantly tooting my own horn when it comes to having saved time or money. I have a few tricks for making our lives a little easier, and I am always sharing them with family and friends – they aren’t innovative by any means, you might already love some of them yourself. I figured, if I’m already texting my family about how I never buy hand soap anymore I might as well make my life even easier and share everything in one space. So here we go, here are a few of the ways I like to make our lives a little easier, more little tricks (some might call them life hacks) to come in a couple weeks!

52 weeks of saving money 52 WEEKS OF SAVING MONEY.

I found this blog post, via Pinterest and thought it was a brilliant idea. Basically, for every week of the year you save the same in dollars – Week 1 you save $1, Week 20 $20 and so on. It’s easy and pretty brilliant, the same as throwing your pocket change in a jar but a little more thoughtful process. I taped a piece of paper to my jar and just write the Week Number on the sheet once I’ve added the money – which should work out to be $1378.00 at the end of the year. My plan is to use this for our winter holiday fund, for presents, food, some get togethers and outings – rather then take money out of our regular funds, but you could use this for anything. *you can still start your jar for this year, it’s only week 10 so easy to play catch up.

count to five not three COUNT TO FIVE, NOT THREE.

Chris came up with this or read it somewhere. When the kids aren’t listening (which is often over here), we often have to resort to counting – so they know we’re serious. When we get to the end of the count if what we asked isn’t being worked on, there is consequences usually a lost privilege – sounds tough, but it’s really not. I always counted to three and it had about a 60% success rate, then Chris starting the 5 count. It works much better for everyone, no more “2, 2 1/2, 2 3/4” trying to slow things down and give them some more time – five is just the right amount of time.  *I asked Harlow to give me her best grumpy face, flash ahead to the teenage years.

frozen ginger FREEZE YOUR GINGER.

I always keep my ginger in the freezer in an air tight bag (a jar would also work). I always have fresh ginger and it never ever goes bad. When I do need to use it, I just grate it on the smallest grater (my trusty ikea grater) easy peasy!

overnight oats OVERNIGHT OATS.

Not only are they delicious, but a huge time saver in the morning. I snagged this picture from MISE EN PLACE a 30-day cleanse e-guide by Oh Dear Drea – it’s technically a cleanse guide, but it’s so much more totally a must buy even if you aren’t technically the cleanse type. It’s packed with tons of easy to understand nutritional info and super yummy recipes, I’m currently obsessed with the three overnight oats recipes in the guide (including ‘Very Berry’ in the picture), which have totally changed up our usual (yet still delicious) recipe from Oh She Glows. It only takes a few minutes of prep before bed and then all you have to do is pull your bowls out of the fridge, if your kids wake up way too early like mine this will be a lifesaver when you’re not fully awake at the butt crack of dawn.

I have a few more tips that I hope to share in a couple weeks. I’d love to hear from you guys, do you have any things you do to make life a little easier? Would you mind sharing, or even contributing?

March 5, 2014     |     written by Brandy     |     712612 Commentshttp%3A%2F%2Fheartandhabit.com%2F2014%2F03%2Fmade-a-little-easier%2FMADE+A+LITTLE+EASIER2014-03-05+19%3A06%3A19Brandyhttp%3A%2F%2Fheartandhabit.com%2F%3Fp%3D7126

Filed Under: ADVICE AND INFO, Daily, SIMPLE LIVING

SHOPPING RULES 101

Last year I made a vow, that I would only buy items that were needed and avoid the wants as much as possible. My spending habits needed a reset, our budget needed a kick in the butt and I needed to jolt feelings of discontent far out of my mind.

I felt like I was stuck in this place were I thought I needed things, but really they were just things I wanted but told myself I had to have them. Those new boots needed to be in my closet, because I didn’t have a pair with buckles like that. In my head I was still working in fashion full time, even though I had technically left it to be home with the kids. It’s actually pretty exhausting, feeling like you constantly want or need some thing. Because the thing is, there is always going something – you make the purchase of that bag you’ve been coveting and instantly there is something else that fails at the top of your need/want list. It’s an exhausting, expensive cycle.

Since I wasn’t working full time, and Chris held the title for main breadwinner (still reigning title holder) – I needed to re-think our finances. I haven’t always been the best with money, and working in the fashion only made that worse. Before setting the NEED ONLY rule, I tried making a family budget and the list of items I thought needed to be on there (but were really just wants) was pretty long and made it so confusing. I wanted to learn to live below our means (I feel like living below your means, should be one of life’s golden rules), and always stay one step ahead – so that life would hopefully (eventually) would be a little less stressed out and a lot more simple and beautiful.

There is nothing wrong with wanting things, it’s impossible not to. But the thing is, when you are always wanting and wishing it has a tendency to breed discontentment inside of you. That feeling of constantly wishing and wanting, can put blinders on preventing you from seeing the amazing things that are in front of you. Discontentment, is a gross and ugly feeling – I have been there ( I can actually think of 4 really stand out times where this gross feeling had a pretty big stab at me) and I didn’t want it in my life anymore. Changing what I wanted and how I saw things, needed to happen.

Yesterday I went grocery shopping meal plan and list in hand, marking down each item and how much it cost as I put it in the cart (I’ve turned anal retentive with my grocery shopping). I realized how my entire outlook on shopping (even the basics) have changed, how I get a rush from hitting my grocery budget (as opposed to the rush of buying a ton of food we didn’t need, and often had to toss cause it was never eaten and was probably pretty unhealthy). I actually get a great feeling when I think there is something I want, only to find reasons why I don’t need it. It’s like I have conditioned myself to think the opposite way, instead of thinking of the reasons why I need to buy those boots (because they are just so cute) I think of the reasons why I don’t need them, and 99% of the time I walk away feeling better not buying them. It’s been a crazy shift and only recently have I seen the long term (and hopefully forever) effects my shopping rules have had….

ONLY BUY WHAT YOU NEED.

  • when you are shopping, buy more timeless essentials and less trendy items. you want your closet to slowly be full of items that can be interchangeable when styled and don’t go out of style each season. trends are awesome and fun, and you can’t not take part so when possible buy the most wearable version of your favorite trend you don’t need to take part in every one.
    meal plan! buy what you need and maybe an extra easy fall back meal or two, for those nights you don’t want to cook – so instead of going out or ordering out, you have the fall backs to go to.

ONLY BUY WHAT YOU LOVE.

  • this has been my steadfast rule, since forever. if you are iffy about something, put it back. if you know you are going to think about it for weeks or months to come if you don’t buy it, then you should probably get it. sometimes, something is super awesome and you might love it on other people – but when you try it, you don’t love it on yourself…put it back.  eventually your closet will also be filled with things you love, and things will automatically be versatile and easily styled together.

TRY TO ONLY BUY ITEMS THAT FIT INTO BOTH RULES. but this isn’t always going to be possible, but if it is – major bonus.

We still dress stylishly, but more focused and our closets are full favorites (or are slowly getting there). We eat healthier, less junk also means smaller grocery bills. I use these rules when shopping for the kids and for Chris and I. When the kids need pants (or anything else), I don’t just buy whatever because they need them – I look and buy what we love (and need) so it will get the most wear and use. Instagram, Pinterest and blogs have a bad reputation for breeding discontent in people – but it’s all how you view the beautiful content, it’s not the contents fault (or the content creators) if it stirs those feels up. The only Joneses you need to keep up with are the ones you tell yourself too, so unless you know an awesome couple named The Jones you can probably get rid of them all together.

*an old picture from the Fall, and the weather looks dreamy in it!

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